Unlocked is a show all about opening possibilities so that, when you are hit with the unexpected, you have options from which to choose. 

Thursday, June 20th

 

Difficult Conversations Can Build Trust

“It's not about how smart you are, but how open you are to learn new and effective powerful conversational rituals that prime the brain for trust, partnership, and mutual success.” Judith Glaser, author of Conversational Intelligence.

 

We need courage for every aspect of our lives, but perhaps one of the most important is the courage to have difficult conversations.

 

My guest this week is Ariana Friedlander. Ariana Friedlander is an award-winning organizational anthropologist, leadership development expert and author. She is the founder and principal of Rosabella Consulting. Ariana has over 20 years of experience fostering positive change within organizations and companies ranging from the Poudre River Public Library District to the Department of Defense. A student of Judith Glaser, Ariana is a certified Conversational Intelligence® Coach.

 

Do you have or anticipate a difficult conversation to face? It might be due to a challenge in a relationship, a career shift, or having to let someone go from your company. You can develop conversational intelligence. Join me.

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Angie Wakeman, Clown Facilitator
 
"Madelyn’s questions shook off cobwebs in my mind on topics that were critical to my life successes that I haven’t thought about in years – topics that are still applicable today. I hope one day for a return invitation. In the meantime, she can count me as a new listener to her show!"
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